Creative Class in Session: Syllabus

First day of class. The professor distributes the syllabus. She drones on, word by freaking word. You skim ahead, get to the juicy bits: how is the grade calculated? How much homework? What will we read?

As a professor, writing the syllabus is a challenge. I have ideas. I want to re-invent the class, keeping the activities that worked, developing new activities. As a student, I can’t wait to read a new syllabus. All that promise. All that new stuff to discover.

But when it comes to life outside of academia I’ve worked sans syllabus.

This summer, that’s about to change. One of my colleagues, Joyce Hayden, is a talented artist, writer, and teacher. Last year she shared with me that she writes a syllabus for her creative work over the summer. The idea intrigued me, but I didn’t act on it. By the end of the week, though, I plan to have a syllabus written, printed, and on my desk. A plan for creative work is a good thing, right?

Do you want to join me? Whether you’re planning to hand stitch a quilt, write a novel, or learn French, give a creative-project syllabus a try.

Never wrote a syllabus? You can take a look at the one I wrote for this spring’s creative writing class.

See? No sweat. The components are simple:

Meeting Time and Place: I’ll block out sections of my day for creative work. When is best for you to work?

Required Texts: I’m going to have a couple of creative projects going. One is a writing project that will require me to brush up on my sentence diagramming. The other is a watercolor project, and I will need some references. I like to start my creative work (or play!) sessions with a reading to help me get grounded. What could you read as you enter into creative mode?

Other Requirements: What else do you need to gather for your creative project? I may need some medical references for the writing project. I have plenty of supplies for the painting project.

Courteousness and Safe Haven: Since you’re the only one working on this project, this can be an agreement for self care. For instance, my writing needs to feel protected. All too often, I ask for critique on my writing before it is ready. During this project, I will not do that.

Cell Phones: What is your policy for interacting with others, including the internet, during your creative time?

Attendance: How will you hold yourself accountable for showing up to the page, the needle, the loom? Are there any acceptable reasons for missing a scheduled session? Define them now, before you start.

Resources: Where can you turn for help? Make a list so you can feel secure when you need help.

Endeavors: This year, I started to use the word endeavor in my class rather than project or assignment. I like the connotations of it. So what are the parts that will make up the whole for you? How will you move forward on your creative endeavors? Define that here.

Schedule: I plan to write a schedule like this one I used with students this spring. I’ll list my readings and what I’ll need to do to make progress on my creative endeavors. I’ll schedule an outing or two in there, just to make sure I fill the creative well.

Syllabuses can have other components, of course, and I’d love to hear what you’re including in yours.

Are you in? Creative class in session? Tell me about your creative project in the comments!

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Solstice Reflections

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“Do you ever wait for the longest day of the year and then miss it? I always wait for the longest day of the year and then miss it!” -Daisy in The Great Gatsby 

I read this post from Sas Patherick about using the Solstice as a moment to pause and reflect on the year. Perfect, I thought, and I hope you’ll share a link to your own if you feel moved to pause, too.

Here are Sas’s questions.

One: Did you have a word for this year? How has it manifested itself? If you didn’t have a word, what is the theme that has played out in your life so far this year?
Two: What are you most proud of?
Three: What have you chosen to let go of? 
Four: What has been your greatest joy or surprise?
Five: What book, movie, exhibition, tv programme, play, concert, article, photograph, or website has been your favourite find? 
Six: What three things do you want for yourself by the next Solstice – 21st December 2013?

And my responses…

1. I selected the word Bloom for my One Little Word. Since January 1, 2013, I have had flowers in my house. Looking at these blooms, either on the table, next to my chair, or by the bed, reminds me that I want to open, to unfurl, to show the world (myself, especially) what I have to offer.

2. I’m proud of developing more patience and learning to bite my tongue more often. I’m proud of winning a new contract at work. I’m proud of the weeding I’ve been doing around the yard. I’m proud of risks taken. I’m proud of my imperfections.

3. I’ve chosen to let go of the narrowness of my creative identity. I’m trying to let go of parts of the identity that don’t really fit me any more. I’ve let go of Open Road Writing and merged my blogs…I’m letting go of putting myself in boxes. My work as a writer and as a writing coach and my work with fiber and my work as a teacher…all of these are part of the whole, and it is time to let go of viewing them as separate rather than linked.

4. I’ve had so many joys and surprises that it is hard to pick the greatest. One joy is how my connection to Neal has deepened as we navigate our beloved Tilly’s illness. Sorrow can tear apart relationships, and we have not had much sorrow in ours over the years. It is a joy to know that we’re as good a team in sorrow as in other parts of our lives together.

Another joy to date was celebrating my 30-year friendship with Sara by spending three weeks with her in France. It’s amazing to be with someone who understands every nuance implied by a raised eyebrow or pursed lips. It’s amazing to dream with my best friend, to hear her dreams and to cheer her on has much as she cheers me on all the time. It’s amazing to eat good foods together, to look at art and fashion and architecture together, to create new memories together.

Professionally, it was a joy to teach Creative Writing at my university this semester. I adored my students, and I am impressed by their hard work and the quality of their creative work. They made every Tuesday and Thursday delightful.

5. I’ve read a few books I’ve loved so far this year, but the one I can’t forget is one you should pre-order: Cari Luna‘s The Revolution of Every Day . Right now. You won’t regret it, and I’ll look for your thank you in October, once you’ve read it, too. I’ve also, rather late to the party, become a fan of Neil Gaiman’s work. His imagination appeals to me in so many ways!

6. By the next Solstice, I would like

  • to have written the poems that swim in my prosey head
  • to have developed my watercolor painting skills
  • to have a contract for the non-fiction book I feel compelled to write
  • to have ridden 100 miles in one day on my bike

I hope you find some magic in this long, long day!

The Writer’s Next Step: Ready for Action

If I’ve learned one thing in life, it is the value of a good reader. Someone who will read, not just for pleasure, but with a critical eye. Such a reader can help a writer move her work forward with confidence.

I want to be that reader for you.

Over the last 13 years, I’ve honed my skills as a reader and a writer, and I’m ready to share those skills.

I hope you’ll take a look at The Writer’s Next Step page. If there’s anything I can help you with, please ask. And if you know someone who might benefit from taking the Next Step, please share the page with them. Want to know what it is like to work with me? You’ll find some reviews here.

Here’s to the Next Step!

Six

Maddie looks on

You cannon possess me for I belong to myself
But while we both wish it, I give you that which is mine to give
You cannon command me, for I am a free person
But I shall serve you in those ways you require
and the honeycomb will taste sweeter coming from my hand

I pledge to you that yours will be the name I cry aloud in the night and
the eyes into which I smile in the morning
I pledge to you the first bite of my meat and the first drink from my cup
I pledge to you my living and my dying, each equally in your care
I shall be a shield for your back and you for mine
I shall not slander you, nor you me
I shall honor you above all others, and when we quarrel we shall do so in
private and tell no strangers our grievances

This is my wedding vow to you
This is the marriage of equals.

Six years ago, we vowed to be each other’s shield, to engage in a marriage of equals.

Six years ago, we made the most meaningful promise of our lives.

I am so glad we did.

Ten on Tuesday: May Edition

Carole asked us to list Ten Things I’m Looking Forward to in May. Easy Peasy.

First, some specific dates:

1. May 2: Last day of classes.

2. May 3-5: My brother and sister who live far away will be in town for the weekend.

3. May 7: Collect final portfolios from students. After that, a grading party, and I’m done teaching for the semester.

4. May 18: Neal and I celebrate our sixth wedding anniversary.

5. May 19-June 6: I visit Sara in France where we will celebrate our 30th year of friendship.

Now, some general lovely things I’m looking forward to in May:

6. I’m going to launch my first e-course. I’ve been working hard to transform my method of finding time to do what I want to do into something that will be useful to you. I can’t wait to share it!

7. Lilacs. Last summer Neal moved our lilac trees to a new, sunnier location, and I expect mounds of flowers this year. They look SO happy with their new homes!

8. Violet jelly. I’m hoping to pick my violets on Wednesday or Friday.

9. Mother’s Day. I haven’t quite decided la façon de célébrer ma mère (I’ve been practicing my French, see?!), but she has had a challenging year and deserves an extra-special day.

10. Did I mention school letting out? And my anniversary? And that adventure ahead of me? Yes. I think May is going to be a lovely month!

What are you looking forward to in May?

Guest Post: Charlotte Rains Dixon on Connection

I’m so pleased that Charlotte Rains Dixon accepted my invitation to write about her delightful novel and protagonist. You can read my review of the novel here.

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In the first chapter of my just-published novel, Emma Jean’s Bad Behavior, the heroine, novelist Emma Jean Sullivan, has a problem (well, she has several of them, but the others don’t become evident until later on in the book).

Emma Jean realizes she has no friends.

She has family, with whom she has an assortment of affinities, most of them not very close.

She has colleagues.

And she has fans, the grandiose word she uses for her readers.

But Emma Jean has no friends.

And every woman needs friends.  We need friends to meet at Happy Hour for a glass of wine.  To parse confusing knitting patterns.  To talk about men.  To bond over a beloved book.  To discuss the day’s news.

In short, we need friends for a sense of connection.

 So Emma Jean, feeling this lack, sets off on a path to make friends.  (Really, its one friend because she can only come up with a single candidate.) And while her efforts meet with varying degrees of success, what happens over the course of the novel is that Emma Jean finds that missing sense of connection, in totally surprising ways.

And her life changes for the better.

Emma Jean learns what many of us already know—that relationships transform our world.  This simple fact is one reason I love writing and reading women’s fiction.  The genre focuses on relationships, and many women put relationships first in their own lives.  This used to be seen as weakness, but more and more it’s looked at as having the power to transform our world.

In the recent book The Bond, author Lynne McTaggart writes, with well-researched scientific backing, of the power of connection, and maintains that strong relationships are the most important aspect of a harmonious life.  And that achieving a harmonious life is the key to a successful future for this planet.

That’s exactly what Emma Jean learns over the course of the novel: that life is simply better when you’ve got friends.

In writing the novel, I learned to value my friends and family even more.  I’ve probably always been guilty of valuing love in all its forms over anything else in my life (including money) and since going on the journey with Emma Jean, I’ve vowed to no longer feel like this is a weakness.

Instead I believe that by focusing on connection, I—along with all my female brethren—am changing the world.

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Charlotte Rains Dixon mentors creative writers from passionate to published. Charlotte is a free-lance journalist, ghostwriter, and author. She is Director Emeritus and a current mentor at the Writer’s Loft, a certificate writing program at Middle Tennessee State University. She earned her MFA in creative writing from Spalding University and is the author of a dozen books, including The Complete Guide to Writing Successful Fundraising Letters, and Beautiful America’s Oregon Coast. Her fiction has appeared in The Trunk, Santa Fe Writer’s Project, Nameless Grace, andSomerset Studios and her articles have been published in Vogue Knitting, the Oregonian, and Pology, to name a few. Her novel, Emma Jean’s Bad Behavior, was just published. Visit her blog at www.charlotterainsdixon.com, where you can find all kinds of tips and techniques on writing and creativity.

Rest

It’s hard to know what to say. My heart aches for everyone affected by the Boston Marathon bombings. When I heard about them, I fell into a spiral of feeling exactly like I did following 9/11 when I watched the Towers burn from my train platform.

Today many students on my campus looked stunned, worried. A lot of them come from the Boston area. I worked with one student who could barely hold herself together, and despite my efforts to get her to our crisis counseling, she refused, saying she had to just keep working and deal with her feelings later. While we worked together, she was getting texts from her sister, who had been evacuated from her school in the Boston area. It’s hard to be away from home during crisis. That’s what my student was feeling.

An amazing colleague ran the marathon, finishing not long before the explosions. I can only imagine how she will be affected as time goes on. But you know what she’s doing? She’s helping to organize a fun run near our campus as a way to heal and raise funds for One Fund Boston. I’ll be there. I’m sure all see a lot of my colleagues and students out walking and running, too.

Knitters and crocheters, you can read this post and donate some hand-crafted comfort to Krystle Campbell’s family.

This terrific Amy Poehler video is a good reminder. Sometimes we just need to rest our eyes.

And, Boston: this New Englander who has always loved New York best…she’s got you in her heart. Always.

Wishing you all a restful weekend.

Ten on Tuesday: Vacation Edition

My vacation is still over a month away, but I’m already thinking about 10 Things I (plan to) Bring on Vacation (I’m taking out the Always. I don’t know that I Always bring the same things). You can see my similar list circa 2010.

1. I still bring my fabulous luggage. I’m a firm believer in investing in quality pieces, and this one looks even better than when I bought it ten years ago.

2. A bathing suit. I have a bikini I like from Fig Leaves. The shop is great for odd shaped (and aren’t we all a bit oddly shaped?) bodies. Even if I don’t end up with a chance to swim, I want to prepared for the beach, a sailboat, a pool…

3. iPad. I now prefer it to my Kindle for reading, mostly because it is back lit. I can’t emphasize how much easier traveling is without books weighing down my luggage.

4. Journal. I plan to do lots and lots of sketching and writing while I’m in France. I treasure my travel journals.

5. Rita. This dress (mine is black) is as comfy as a lovely bathrobe yet looks stylish. It will emerge from my bag sans wrinkles. Should I get asked to a fancy-pants dinner, I will be prepared.

6. Knitting. Since I’m planning a meet up with Heather in Paris, and since we’re having a little #VeeraKAL, I may have my in-progress Color Affection along. Or maybe a sock.

7. Wireless keyboard. This is a little bit of a luxury item to take, but I will be on a firm writing schedule, don’t want to schlep my laptop, and will use it daily (so I say).

8. iPhone. Technically, I could write with this rather than the iPad, but I can’t read on the phone for long periods of time. However, I will listen to audio books and music on it.

9. Good shoes. I’m not sure what I’ll chose for France, but they’ll have to look stylish and be comfortable. In that order. Yes, I am vain, vain, vain.

10. Sense of adventure. I like to balance seeing the touristy sights with meandering. I love the adventure of turning a corner and finding a delightful little museum or shop or cafe. Sara and I are good travel companions (we should be after 30 years of hanging out together!), so I expect that we shall have lots of fun wanders. I’m ready for them all.

What do you like to bring on vacation?

Want to Dress with Less?

I’ve written many times about Project 333‘s impact on my life. Here’s a recap:

  • I always feel stylish and put together. The clothes in my closet are in good repair, fit perfectly, and suit my style.
  • I save time. I don’t waffle about what to wear every day, and it doesn’t take long to maintain a small wardrobe.
  • I save money. I rarely purchase new clothes now where once I shopped as a hobby. When I do identify an item I’d like, I spend time considering how it will fit in my wardrobe, why I want it, and then I purchase a high-quality garment that I can wear for years.
  • I learned a lot about myself and my values.

A little later this year (mid-June), I will embark on a new minimalist fashion project: 52/52. I will narrow my year-round wardrobe to 52 items, which I will wear for the entire year. Linda is taking on the challenge, too.

If you’d like to join me and Linda, or start Project 333 (you can start any time; there’s no reason to wait), but you’re feeling a little anxious about cutting down the wardrobe, I recommend you start with Courtney Carver’s excellent Micro-Course Dress with Less: Click here to view more details.* The course is a week-long, and it includes pdf worksheets, playlists to inspire you (Courtney’s a real Mix Master), and access to a private FaceBook group, where you’ll find lots of people ready to cheer for you and answer questions.

And if you have any questions about paring down your wardrobe, well, I’m here for you. I’d love to chat with you about your clothing list-sometimes it helps to hear that you really can get by with one pair of black pants!

Are you intrigued? What’s holding you back?

 

*Please note: I am an affiliate for this program. I believe with all of my heart in Courtney’s work. Having done Project 333 for almost 2.5 years, I know her advice works!

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